As a family nurse practitioner, when the time is right, the child mature enough, and the parents on the same page, I talk with my pediatric clientele about the names of their private parts and empower them to use the proper terms. My clients are of a higher socioeconomic status, often well educated, quite often even in healthcare themselves, and almost always huge advocates of women but still, the norm is to refer to the boy's anatomy as the penis and the female's as the vagi